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Care and Feeding

A Memoir

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A candid, funny, and occasionally devastating memoir of a woman making her way through the food world, navigating addiction, a cultural reckoning, and an unexpected tragedy

In this moving, hilarious, and insightful memoir, Laurie Woolever traces her path from a small-town childhood to working at revered restaurants and food publications, alternately bolstered and overshadowed by two of the most powerful men in the business. But there's more to the story than the two bold-faced names on her resume: Mario Batali and Anthony Bourdain.

Behind the scenes, Laurie's life is frequently chaotic, an often pleasurable buffet of bad decisions at which she frequently overstays her welcome. Acerbic and wryly self-deprecating, Laurie attempts to carve her own space as a woman in this world that is by turns toxic and intoxicating. Laurie seeks to try it all—from a seedy Atlantic City strip club to the Park Hyatt Tokyo, from a hippie vegetarian co-op to the legendary El Bulli—while balancing her consuming work with her sometimes ambivalent relationship to marriage and motherhood.

As the food world careens toward an overdue reckoning and Laurie's mentors face their own high-profile descents, she is confronted with the questions of where she belongs and how to hold on to the parts of her life's work that she truly values: care and feeding.

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      February 1, 2025
      A tale of celebrity kitchen mayhem. Woolever came onto the high-end New York restaurant scene at 22, "the correct age to eat shit at a poverty--wage job that I hated, while living in a wet hole in the ground." The first wet hole belonged to Mario Batali, the once-eminent empire-building chef who fell afoul of the dawning #MeToo culture with behavior that would make even the most unapologetic horndog blush: "His handsiness and constant dirty jokes and innuendo signified that it was OK, even encouraged, to squeeze and flirt with and grope each other," Woolever recounts, and in the end, it brought him down. To her good fortune, Woolever wasn't there for that end, having since--at Batali's engineering--gone to work for Anthony Bourdain, the angel on Woolever's shoulder to Batali's devil. Much of what Woolever has to say about Bourdain is available, in one voice or another, in the oral biographyBourdain that she assembled after his death, just as much of what she has to say about restaurant work is told, and far better, in Bourdain's own breakthrough book, Kitchen Confidential. What is not available elsewhere is an enumeration--that eventually becomes tedious and then numbing--of Woolever's own bad behavior: pickup sex and numerous affairs while married and raising a child, abundant drugs and an endless flow of alcohol, lies and evasions and missed days of work, and all the rest. It's noteworthy, and a detriment, that Woolever is harshly judgmental of just about everyone but herself (and, for the most part, Bourdain), cutting herself innumerable breaks for decades of infidelities and addictions until finally allowing that sobriety works better. "If Tony were still alive," she writes, "I'd almost certainly still be working for him, maybe collaborating on a new book, instead of having written this one." Yes, and more's the pity. This is one meal you can skip.

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